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The Importance of Emotional Value in Maintaining a Healthy and Happy Marriage
I watched the popular drama “The Right Way to Open Life” two days ago and was moved by a scene in it. Full-time housewife Fu Xintong paid a deposit of 1 million yuan in advance to send her son to study abroad, but the money was defrauded. When her husband Bian Liang learned that his wife had been cheated and the money was difficult to recover, he did not get angry. Instead, he comforted his wife: “Don’t take this matter to heart. Just think of it as a loss in the stock market. You have to pay for the mortgage and son’s tuition fees. Don’t worry, there’s still me.” Many…
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The Power of Positivity: How to Find Happiness in Everything
Don’t criticize right away, saying that reasons create happiness, not just creating reasons when you have happiness, saying that my topic is absurd. It is like accusing first and then finding evidence of guilt, first divorce and then looking for evidence of spouse’s infidelity. Happiness, as a state, can be based on reasons. Didn’t the emperor sit on the dragon chair and look for signs of “heavenly sages”? The problem here is that you “command” yourself to be happy, and you are indeed happy, but you are not at ease in your heart, and feel that the happiness you get at your fingertips is not very upright. So, you have…
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The light we carry
When I was a kid, it occurred to me one day that my dad started using a cane to help me balance while I was walking. I can’t remember exactly when it showed up at our home on Chicago’s South Side—I was four or five years old, and suddenly, there it was, a smooth black wood cane, slender and strong. It was an early result of multiple sclerosis, which left my dad with a severe limp in his left leg. Slowly and silently, it erodes his central nervous system and weakens the strength of his legs. The disease had likely been taking its toll on Dad long before his diagnosis,…
