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The Importance of Emotional Value in Maintaining a Healthy and Happy Marriage
I watched the popular drama “The Right Way to Open Life” two days ago and was moved by a scene in it. Full-time housewife Fu Xintong paid a deposit of 1 million yuan in advance to send her son to study abroad, but the money was defrauded. When her husband Bian Liang learned that his wife had been cheated and the money was difficult to recover, he did not get angry. Instead, he comforted his wife: “Don’t take this matter to heart. Just think of it as a loss in the stock market. You have to pay for the mortgage and son’s tuition fees. Don’t worry, there’s still me.” Many…
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Modern Husbands: 3 Dilemmas and How to Solve Them
Young husbands aged about 25 to 40 encountered difficulties in getting along with their husbands and wives. They didn’t understand what they did wrong? Or what does the wife “want”? Once, in the “marriage relationship study” class, I thought most of the employees were female. Unexpectedly, when I stepped in, I found that half of them were young men. I was surprised, but I was delighted in my heart. Because, family management and getting along with husband and wife are no longer just the wife’s business.
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The Importance of Timing and Emotional Intelligence in Communication
As the term “emotional intelligence” gradually entered our field of vision, my “social phobia” became more and more serious. In my previous cognition, an expression that is not sincere enough is hypocrisy and arrogance. If so, then I would rather “shut up”. However, a few small things in life have subverted my thinking: even if it is “sincere” enough, if it is not timely, it is also redundant. In high school, everyone occasionally had the opportunity to wear private clothes. My dressing taste is indeed not good enough, and I often laugh at myself because of it, but deep down I still feel inferior. It’s a pity that vision cannot…
