My friend Alan is going through a very bad experience recently: “My college classmate got a Ph.D., but I’m stuck in my job. In comparison, I feel like I’m doing really poorly.” 　　Her boyfriend, Alan Yang also had the same feeling as her: “My high school classmates all bought luxury cars with their own money, and I still commuted on the subway and bus every day. We are all from the same school. The gap is really big.” ” 　　Whenever I see my friends When my old classmates in the circle show off their wonderful lives, I feel very anxious and feel that I am much behind my peers.” ”…