Anthropologist Xiang Biao once described the contemporary era as a “suspended society”: everyone is busy working, just like a hummingbird suspended in the air, vibrating its wings crazily but not daring to relax. But just like a hummingbird’s purpose is just to stay suspended in the air, The present of modern people has also been suspended. The present has lost its meaning and is just a transitional tool pointing to the future. 　　This has also become the source of anxiety, stress and internal friction. Everyone is working hard towards “the person they should be”, and the process is full of “shoulds” but no “happiness”. This has also caused people’s attitudes…