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Anger & Us: Can We Escape the “Prison” of Hate? Alan Baker’s “Angry Prisoners” Analyzed
“Angry Prisoners” is finally released in China. I read this book by Alan Baker many years ago. At that time, I discovered that this huge book full of information had an indescribable and thought-provoking magic. The topics discussed in the book are experiences that every reader can relate to. Everyone will have their own views and opinions on things, so everyone will also have different prejudices. Prejudice affects a person’s perception and attitude towards things. This negative attitude also often leads to dissatisfaction, hostility and even hatred. If hostility is triggered by some environmental trigger, anger will come. Don’t underestimate anger because if not handled well, anger can lead to…
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Captive No More: Regain Control of Your Emotions & Master Your Life
The renowned philosopher Schopenhauer uttered a cautionary truth: “The greatest disaster in the world is human thinking.” Indeed, life’s tapestry is often woven with threads of negativity, weaving a frustrating narrative of annoying people and unwelcome events. These emotional outbursts, though fleeting, leave an enduring aftertaste of regret, perpetuating a cycle of self-doubt and self-recrimination. Thankfully, the culprit lies not in the emotions themselves, but in our cognitive biases, as psychologist Albert Ellis aptly noted: “Emotions are not the problem, irrational thinking is.” His seminal work, “Why My Emotions Are Always Swayed by Others,” serves as an invaluable guide to realigning our cognition and mastering our emotions. When our thinking…
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Socrates’ Wise Response to His Angry Wife: A Lesson in Humor and Forgiveness
Socrates’ second spouse possessed an exceedingly fiery temperament and frequently rebuked Socrates. After all, Socrates, being three decades her senior, typically exhibited forbearance toward her. One fine day, a number of companions arrived at their abode to seek elucidation on specific principles. The discourse was animated, with each individual expressing their viewpoints. Socrates became so engrossed that he neglected his culinary duties. The wife escorted the children outdoors to engage in play, and prior to departing, she explicitly instructed him to prepare a repast and await their return. But now, time had slipped away, rendering any action futile, compelling him to endure her outburst. As anticipated, upon the wife’s return…