A person’s happiness is a basic ability to live. This ability has nothing to do with how much wealth you have, and it has nothing to do with your position. Happiness is not what you want. If happiness is so simple, it will not become the most expensive thing in the human spiritual world.
Wilde said that there are two tragedies in life: one is not getting what you want, and the other is getting what you want. This made me think deeply that true happiness is not actually obtained, but a sense of balance.
In this way, if happiness is only a specific goal, even if you get it, you may not find happiness in the ultimate sense, because it fits Wilde’s tragedy theory. Moreover, greed is easy to hide behind the act of obtaining. At the moment of possession, you will be excited, but excitement is exactly a kind of stimulus. The stimulus gives people a short-term dizziness. I don’t think it can be regarded as real happiness, because happiness What gives is a long-lasting sense of fulfillment.
The ability to be happy is actually the ability to live a plain life. If you are already a wealthy person and still feel that steamed buns, millet porridge, and delicacies are not much worse than those of seafood, you will have the ability to be happy. Of course, if you are in a difficult situation, you don’t want to envy the lives of other people’s fresh clothes and angry horses, but you know how to enjoy yourself, then you also have the ability to be happy.
Not pleased, not to have compassion. Keeping your inner peace and tranquility, such a person will inevitably be very close to happiness. Whatever one wants, and what one wants nothing, can easily become a dilemma in life. The self-calmness in the prime and the vigorous ego in the decline are both the ability to balance the heart well.
Happiness is a feeling and a state of mind. Happiness is satisfaction in the heart, not envy, jealousy, complaining, or feeling wronged or inferior. Smile yourself and smile at others.
Such a person is not troubled by the outside world, has a strong mentality, has superior abilities, and is contented and happy. Naturally, he is the easiest person to become happy.