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As soon as she was gone, Huck rushed to the window, tore it open and whispered urgently:
“Tom, we can go out the window if we find a rope, it won’t go up.”
“Nonsense! Why should we go out the window? ”
“I – I can’t take such a bunch of people, I’m not used to it. I’m not going back down, Tom. ”
“Stupidity! Is also something right. I don’t care. Wait, I’ll take care of you and help you! ”
Sid appeared.
“Tom,” he said, “your aunt has been waiting for you all afternoon. Mary got your Sunday clothes ready and everyone was frightened about you. Tell me, isn’t that clay and tallow on your clothes? ”
“Well, young man, I advise you to only take care of your things. Why is all the noise? ”
“Well, it’s a company the widow often has, and this time in honor of old Jones and his sons, because they bailed her out the other night. Well, listen, I still know something, if you want to know. ”
“So what?”
“Well, old Jones wants something else with the company[296] surprise, I heard how he told his aunt this afternoon, as a secret, of course, but it’s no longer a big secret. Everyone knows – the widow too, although she pretends to know nothing. Jesus Christ, has old Jones worried about whether the Huck was certain to be there too tonight – without him his great secret would not have been worth a bean, you know! ”
“Secret – why, Sid?”
“Just that Huck sneaked after the guys back then, all the way to the fence, that’s all. The old man wants to make a lot of fun out of it tonight, but it will probably be a little weak. ”
And Sid laughed maliciously and self-satisfied to himself.
“Sid, did you reveal it?”
“What does it matter who gave it away? – someone did it, that much is certain. ”
“Sid, I only know one guy in town who is miserable enough to do that sort of thing, and he’s you! If you had been Huck, you would have sneaked home into the warm nest and let the robbers be robbers. You can only ever do something mean and cannot hear when others are praised because they have done something beautiful and something good. So, there you have something – ‘no thanks,’ as Mrs. Douglas says downstairs. ”
At the same time Tom hit Sid behind the ears and kicked him out the door with a few kicks. “Run over there and tell your aunt, if you have the heart to do it, I’ll remember it tomorrow.”
A few minutes later the guests were gathered around the widow’s dining table. At the appropriate time Mr. Jones then gave his speech in which he thanked the kind landlady for the honor she had shown him and his sons, but that another, who was also present, would be grateful –
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And so on. Now he brought the great secret of Huck’s part in the matter to light, and that’s in the most dramatic way he could. The surprise, however, which what was communicated aroused, was somewhat artificial and not nearly as lively and warm as it could have been under happier circumstances. The widow herself, of course, knew very well how to display the greatest astonishment and overwhelmed Huck with such excess of thanks and praise that Huck felt the almost unbearable discomfort that the new clothes caused him over the completely unbearable discomfort that the To be the target of everyone’s gaze and applause, completely forgot.
Widow Douglas offered to offer Huck a home in her house, to have him educated and later to support him as much as she could. Now Tom’s wheat was in bloom, and he loosened his tongue:
“Huck doesn’t need that, Huck is rich enough!”
Only the compulsion imposed by the good way of life on society was able to hold back an outburst of laughter at this supposedly good joke; but the prevailing silence was a little uncomfortable. Tom broke it immediately.
“Huck is rich, I say, he has money. You might not believe it, but he’s got loads of money. Don’t even have to laugh, I’ll prove it to you in a moment. Just wait a minute! ”
He ran out the door. Those present first looked at each other in disbelief and then questioningly at Huck, who sat there without a word.
“Sid, what’s up with Tom?” Aunt Polly asked anxiously. I – ”
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Then Tom stepped back in, hunched over under the weight of his money bags, and Aunt Polly had to leave the sentence unfinished. Tom emptied the pile of flashing gold on the table and shouted triumphantly:
“There – what did I tell you? Half of it belongs to Huck and the other half to me! ”
The sight of the money took everyone’s breath away. Everyone stared at the shiny gold pieces and no one found words for a moment. Then there was a general call for clarification. Tom said he could give it, and that’s him. The story was long, but unspeakably interesting, only occasionally sparsely interspersed remarks from the breathlessly listening audience interrupted their captivating charm. When Tom finished, old Jones said:
“Did I want where I set the company ‘prepare ne little surprise, -‘ tis but absolutely nothing against that. Tom,[299] the devil, he trumped me nicely, I have to say that! But gladly admit it, God knows, gladly admit it! ”
The money has now been counted. The total was just over twelve thousand dollars. It was more than any of those present had ever seen together, although there were some who owned far more than that in terms of real estate.
