• Captive No More: Regain Control of Your Emotions & Master Your Life

    The renowned philosopher Schopenhauer uttered a cautionary truth: “The greatest disaster in the world is human thinking.” Indeed, life’s tapestry is often woven with threads of negativity, weaving a frustrating narrative of annoying people and unwelcome events. These emotional outbursts, though fleeting, leave an enduring aftertaste of regret, perpetuating a cycle of self-doubt and self-recrimination. Thankfully, the culprit lies not in the emotions themselves, but in our cognitive biases, as psychologist Albert Ellis aptly noted: “Emotions are not the problem, irrational thinking is.” His seminal work, “Why My Emotions Are Always Swayed by Others,” serves as an invaluable guide to realigning our cognition and mastering our emotions. When our thinking…

  • Beyond the Blues: Unlocking Your Identity and Conquering Negative Emotions

    Everyone has a lot of troubles, and some people are in a state of depression all the time and can’t find the meaning of life. Some people are anxious all day long and worry about trivial matters. Some people are always cautious, for fear that others will blame them. Some people can’t handle interpersonal relationships well, resulting in no friends around them. There are many reasons for this, but all of these things make the individual feel a boundless negative emotion. Many people actually have some psychological disorders, but they don’t show it often, or the way they show it is more hidden, and they don’t even notice it. They…

  • Finding Meaning and Purpose in Life: Understanding Different Perspectives on Personal Pursuits and Goals

    What is the meaning of a person’s lifelong efforts and pursuits? In fact, Mr. Ji Xianlin said that he only discovered when he was 90 years old that what most people strive for is meaningless, and many people live in a dazed and confused way. People’s understanding of the meaning of life varies from person to person. People pursue different things and goals, often determined by their personal values ​​and goals. Some may attribute meaning to career success, others may see meaning as achieving personal happiness and inner peace, while still others may base meaning on social contribution and influence. However, sometimes we may feel that what we are pursuing…

  • The Power of Positivity: How to Find Happiness in Everything

    Don’t criticize right away, saying that reasons create happiness, not just creating reasons when you have happiness, saying that my topic is absurd. It is like accusing first and then finding evidence of guilt, first divorce and then looking for evidence of spouse’s infidelity. Happiness, as a state, can be based on reasons. Didn’t the emperor sit on the dragon chair and look for signs of “heavenly sages”? The problem here is that you “command” yourself to be happy, and you are indeed happy, but you are not at ease in your heart, and feel that the happiness you get at your fingertips is not very upright. So, you have…

  • Personality Diagnosis Through Skin Conditions

       Personality diagnosis through skin conditions is the latest theory proposed by Kenichiro Kasai, who has been in plastic surgery for 24 years and is now the director of Kasai Plastic Surgery Hospital in Osaka.    In the process of treating patients with pigmentation and moles for many years, Kasai Kenichiro discovered that patients with different skin types have certain types of personality tendencies. From the analysis of nearly 50,000 cases, Kasai Kenichiro divided people into 7 types according to their skin quality and corresponding personality traits—    type 1    skin features: fair skin, easy to get eczema, not easy to get spots, and moles The whole body turns…

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