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The Importance of In-Depth Pre-Marital Conversations to Build a Strong Foundation for Marriage
My friend is getting married next month. She is an office worker working in a Fortune 500 foreign company, and her fiancé is a second-generation middle-class person who has failed to start a business and is still growing old. Once after drinking too much, she confided her inner uneasiness to us: “I just can’t figure out how to maintain a family where I am the only one making money. Does he plan to always ask his father for money to support his wife and children?” In fact, This question has been on my friend’s mind for a long time, and she has always been ashamed to speak out, always feeling…
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On Relationships, Choice, and the Myth of the “One and Only”
There are thousands of men who could be a good husband to a woman. When this sentence came out word for word from the mouth of a lawyer girlfriend, I, sitting opposite, almost slid from the chair to the floor. Don’t make such a fuss. This can also be said to men in turn, there are thousands of women who can be good wives for you. You know I don’t mean that everyone can do anything. My upbringing and career prevent me from saying such silly things. I am so unconventional because I am aiming at the kind of “uniqueness” that writers often advocate in their works. Girlfriend talks freely.…
