What is the emotional view of those who feel cold and violent?

When it comes to cold violence, it is actually not too strange for people in marriage. Because in marriage, all kinds of irremediable contradictions will appear due to the inharmonious emotions, incompatible thoughts, unsynchronized behaviors and unsmooth communication.

However, conflicts and conflicts cannot find a way to solve the problem. Naturally, they are not pleasing to the eye of the other party, and they are more reluctant to let the other party have the final say. They have become soft bones bent on settling their differences. Therefore, they will treat each other coldly in words and actions, ignore each other’s existence, refuse to contact with each other’s various body parts, and even fail to fulfill their obligations as wives and husbands. Make the other side passively live in this lifeless and lifeless atmosphere. Moreover, once this kind of behavior has become a means to coerce and compromise the other party, it is bound to intensify. From the first few hours to the next ten days and a half months, even some couples have no communication and contact for several months, but the real life of couples. This is what people refer to as cold violence. Use methods such as silence, disregard and refusal to contact to isolate yourself from the other party, forming a relatively closed space atmosphere and automatically shielding everything from the other party.

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People who live in selfies

Narcissism in the digital age is a young carnival and a young failure.

In ancient Greece, a teenager named ” narcissus” who looked at the river himself became the first narcissist. Thousands of years later today, we enter our height, weight, circumference, heartbeat, sleep tiMe, calorie intake, exercise time, number of walking steps in various smart watches, smart phones and popular apps … and get all about our health assessment, fitness diet advice, statistical graphs and ” me, me, me and I”.

We post self-portraits that are extremely different from ourselves after peeling, beautifying, slimming and enlarging our eyes on social media. We enter these self-portraits into a link to measure the ” color value” to get our own beauty score. After scoring, we share the link with friends and add a ” modest” self – comment. We selfishly count how many compliments, forwards and comments we have received on social media, and constantly update head and background pictures to show our active social life.

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How to control your desire quickly?

Desire is human nature, and its essence is a neutral word, but in life it is given a derogatory sense by us. It is defined as an individual’s extreme desire for something or object. The main body of desire can be human psychology and thoughts, and also include some part of human body structure and structure.

Different people have different desires and needs. Some people have a stronger desire for food, some have a stronger desire for eroticism, some have a stronger desire for psychotropic drugs, and some have a more chasing and craving for spiritual satisfaction and stimulation. Therefore, different desires have different emotional colors and commendatory and derogatory meanings due to the individual characteristics of people.

Most of the time, we measure a person’s success and his ability to control desire. However, for most ordinary people, it is difficult to control desire quickly because of internal factors, external factors and his ability to fight against himself.

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Men sometimes just ” play” and women should be careful not to be cheated again.


Everyone hopes to meet the person who is dedicated to himself in his life, but the world is not always the kind of person who can do anything for you. Some people only want to play with you for the purpose of being with you. Women often give their hearts out. Men only bring the word ” play” in the end. This is unfair, isn’t it? It is true, but who can say anything? Therefore, what needs to be done is for women to improve their ability to identify such inattentive men. If they understand that the man they meet is just playing with you, then stay away from such inattentive men as early as possible and don’t be fooled.

It is totally irresponsible for a man to be with you just for fun. If a man is not responsible for a woman, then the man is too sorry for his gender. Why are men called men? Not only is it because men have to bear some responsibilities in their relationship? In Xiaobian’s opinion, such a man does not have any responsibility at all! A person who has no responsibility and no responsibility does not know why he wants to be with such a person, let alone a man.

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