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How to Distinguish True Friends from False Friends

There is a classic saying on the Internet:
“When you are hungry, some people will give you half of the steamed buns, this is friendship;

Some people will let you eat steamed buns first, this is love;

Some people will give you all the steamed buns, this is family affection;

Some people will hide the steamed buns and tell you that they are also hungry. This is society. ”

I take it for granted.

As the saying goes: true love is precious in a boundless life; sincerity is rare to pass by.

In this world of haste and reality, there are many people who share blessings, but few people who share hardships;

There are many people who are ungrateful and ungrateful, but few who can cherish their company along the way.

Don’t know a person without knowing a thing.

There are too many things in this world, and only through experience can we know the warmth and coldness;

Too many people know the truth and falsehood only when they are in adversity.

Time knows people, troubles know people

In our lifetime, we meet all kinds of people.

When some people first met, they talked sweetly and seemed sincere, but after being together for a long time, they realized that they were just sweet talk and hypocrisy.

Some people don’t lie and have clumsy eyes and speech, but when the time turns, they are always with you.

Know what you need and give you what you want, even if you are not around, your heart has never been separated.

As the saying goes:
“No matter what happens, I don’t know who is near and who is far;

People don’t taste, I don’t know who is thick and who is light. ”

Only when something happens to a person will he know who cares about you and who turns his back on you;

Only when you are in trouble, will you understand who is helping you and who is turning a blind eye to you.

Some people just pass by as a cameo, and they won’t show their hearts;

Some people only tell stories and don’t know how to solve problems.

Time can know people, and difficulties can know people.

Only through the test of time can we recognize a person’s true face;

Only through difficult situations can we understand the true and false of a heart.

I like a sentence very much:
“Time doesn’t lie, it tells the truth.”

So, trust the time, it will tell you eventually:

Who is the face of hypocrisy, who is the true companion, what will leave is the scenery, and what can be left is the truest and best.

Heart-to-heart, warm-hearted

Mencius once said:
“The acquaintance of people is the most important thing in knowing each other, and the most important thing about people’s acquaintance is the intimate heart.”

The communication between people is based on heart-to-heart, warm feelings with affection, throwing in peaches and repaying them in Qiongyao.

It is said that love is a balance, if you treat others well, others will treat you as a confidant;

If you are hypocritical, others will stay away silently.

All relationships in the world are mutual, some people are passers-by, and some are bosom friends.

The difference lies in whether there is a heart-for-heart exchange, and affection.

Therefore, only sincere people can walk into the heart; hypocritical people will always be avoided by everyone.

People are not afraid of going the wrong way, but they are afraid of crossing people;

Heart, not afraid of being too serious, afraid of knocking on the wrong door;

Love, not afraid of working too hard, but afraid of using the wrong person.

The relationship between two people can only be inseparable if they treat each other sincerely; only when they care for each other can they be warm and dependent.

When the wind rises, let’s block the wind together; when the rain falls, let’s block the rain together.

Supporting each other in this way, the hearts of two people can be maintained, and the love can last forever.

Don’t know a thing, don’t know a person

Sanmao once wrote:
“The most beautiful relationship between friends lies in the icing on the cake;

The most precious thing is sending charcoal in the snow;

The best among friends is like good tea, light but not astringent, fragrant but not overwhelming, it floats slowly, like water flowing in a long time. ”

Some friends are constantly complimenting you and always greet you with a smile, but when you have difficulties, they are the ones who hide the fastest.

Some friends are usually unknown, but they can become the most powerful pillar when you are suffering.

If you don’t know anything, you don’t understand people. After one thing, you can tell your true heart.

A person who is really good to you is someone who is willing to extend his hand to give you a hand no matter what kind of predicament you are in.

For a hypocritical person, no matter how much you give, it will be in vain.

Therefore, when you hit a wall everywhere, and those who spare no effort to help you, don’t forget;

When you are in adversity, don’t lose the person who still persists.

There are not many friends, and the most important thing is to walk together through wind and rain; no matter how long the relationship is, the most important thing is to respond to requests.

Anyone can be rich and honored with you, but only the person who is with you through thick and thin is worthy of your lifetime friendship.

And those people who stay away when you are in trouble are just passers-by in your life.

Remember:

The world is hot and cold, don’t be too kind, human feelings are cold and warm, you have to distinguish the true from the false.

On the road of life, it is very important to choose the right person to accompany you.

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