I once heard such a story. A boy confessed to a girl that the girl did not immediately agree or refused immediately, saying, “Are you sure you like me?” The boy said, “I like you more than everything in the world.” The girl asked again: 1 year later, 3 years later, and after marriage, will you still like me like this?”
The boy was stunned for a long time. After a long time, he didn’t answer lightly. He repeatedly tortured this question in his heart. Finally, he courageously said, “Yes, I will remind myself every day that you are the best gift for me from destiny, no I will forget it because I already have it.” After the girl heard it, she said with a smile: “Okay, I will remind myself every day not to be arbitrarily because of being liked.”
Yes, no matter how long the day is, don’t forget the original affection; when the love fades, remember how to care carefully when you first see it.
I often get off work with my colleague Lao Xie. He will always give his wife something on the road, a cake, a cup of milk tea, or some other small gift.
I once said with emotion: “The old wife and wife are so sentimental!” He smiled and said, “This is to thank my wife for her hard work today. She cleaned up the house and did it. A table of fragrant meals is waiting for me to go home.” I can’t help but how many people think that the matter is just and proper, but the old Xie solemnly thanked him seriously.
I asked him why he did this, and Lao Xie explained: “Marriage is never the tomb of love. Someone messed up love and messed up marriage. Think about it, if you work hard every day, busy In addition, I thought about the other person wholeheartedly, but the other party never put my heart in mind. Even if I didn’t do something well, I was scolded. In exchange for you, do you also want to be picky in this relationship? I don’t appreciate the other party at all. Married marriages often end quickly.”
Lao Xie’s remarks spoke of the normal conditions in the lives of many people—the husband worked hard and made money to support the family, and was regarded as his duty by his wife; his wife’s virtue and thoughtfulness were regarded by her husband as “it should have been this way”.
It’s too easy for us to get used to the other half’s contribution, but we don’t know that true feelings will never grow freely. Feelings need two people to take care of each other, give birth to infinite joy in the minutiae, and still sway for the other’s mind in the plain.
One of the greatest happiness in the world is that someone likes you and gives you the best of everything, and you live up to the cold and warmth of the world together with you, and you live up to it. It is not easy to meet each other. Only those who know how to respect others will be respected. Those who know how to cherish are worth being cherished.