In life, it is not difficult to find that people with similar hobbies and temperaments tend to attract each other. If a person acts upright and respects the old and loves the young, then his friends must have the same character. A psychologist once said: People have different temperaments, what kind of temperament you are, what kind of people will be attracted.
It’s like this story: When a young man buys a bowl, he picks up a bowl in the store and taps the other bowls in turn, making the sound dull and muddy. The young people kept trying and picked almost all the bowls in the store, but none was satisfactory. Even the boutique in the store was not satisfied. The boss didn’t understand why his two bowls collided, and he proudly told the boss that if it can make a crisp and sweet sound, it must be a bowl.
The boss suddenly realized that he handed the young man a bowl again and said with a smile: “Try this bowl to make sure you can pick the bowl you like!” The young man acted dubiously. This time, each bowl made a crisp sound, and he looked at the boss suspiciously.
The boss smiled and said: “The bowl you just brought to try is a defective product. If you use it to try, it will only make a muddy sound. If you want to have a good bowl, you must first make sure that you have the same. Good bowl.” The
same goes for people and people. What kind of person you are determines what kind of person you will meet. An optimistic and open-minded person, the people around him are equally positive; a sinister and cunning person, the people around him are mostly unpredictable. As the saying goes: “Different ways, don’t seek each other.” It is difficult for people with different ambitions to get together. Only when the three views match can get along well.
Who you are with is really important
Han Han once said: How far a person can go depends on who he is with; how good a person is depends on his guidance; how successful a person depends on who he is with. Don’t underestimate the power of subtle and subtle influence. It is in this power that people are slowly shaped. If you want to be a good person, you must be with good people; if you want to be good, you must get close to better people.
There was a young man who wanted to quit smoking, but he was worried that he could not quit, so he went to the doctor for advice. After listening to his troubles, the doctor said nothing, and directly prescribed a prescription and handed it to him. The prescription read: “Go to visit a friend who has quit smoking, once in the morning, at night, and at night.” The young man wondered what kind of treatment it was. The doctor saw his doubts and explained: “To quit smoking, no medicine can be more effective than the benign effect of a friend!” The
young man went back half-believingly. A few months later, he successfully quit smoking and came back to thank the doctor for his help. Those who are near Zhu are red and those who are near Mo are black. People affect each other. People live a lifetime and meet a lot of people, but few who can make love. And and what
kind of things always attract each other. If you are in full bloom, the butterflies will come; if you are wonderful, the sky will arrange it. Only when you become the best you can you meet the best others.
Being together is a very important thing. Good people can motivate themselves to move forward; bad people can induce decadence.
The longer you get along, the greater the impact on a person. An optimistic person will make you happy every day; a cynic person will make you irritable every day. The misery and gains and losses of life are in the state of mind. The mentality depends on how you are affected. Life is not long, and who you are with is really important. I hope everyone can walk with outstanding people.
Become the best you can meet the best others
There is a saying: Don’t chase a horse, use the time of chasing horses to plant grass, when the spring blossoms, there will be a group of horses for you to choose. Don’t deliberately indulge in a person. Use the time you don’t have friends to improve your morals. When the time is right, there will be many friends walking with you. Friends made with human affection are only temporary, and friends attracted with virtue are long-lasting. Enriching oneself is more powerful than pleasing others.
An entrepreneur once shared his experience: when he was in college, he was interested in e-commerce and met several big names during the event. When he graduated, he decided to start a business and contacted several of them with confidence, but few of them responded to him. He had to study and practice on his own, constantly trying and failing, step by step, and finally made some achievements. After that, there were an endless stream of people looking for him, including the big coffee of the year.
Excellent people will meet better people; the better the character, the better character will be met. As the “Book of Changes” said: the same voice corresponds, the same kind of seeking. Things of the same kind are always attracted to each other. If you are in full bloom, the butterflies will come; if you are wonderful, the sky will arrange it. Only when you become the best you can you meet the best others.
How your life is, it has a lot to do with the people around you. When you are with sunny people, your heart will not be dark; when you are with happy people, you always have a smile at the corners of your mouth; when you are with enterprising people, you will not lag behind in action; when you are with generous people, you will not be stingy; and wise When you are together, you will not be confused when encountering things; when you are with smart people, you will become astute in doing things. You will meet whoever you are; only by becoming the best self can you meet the best others.